Sporadically, we sext because we’re lonely and bored stiff and simply wish just a little attention that is sexual.

Sporadically, we sext because we’re lonely and bored stiff and simply wish just a little attention that is sexual.

But let’s be truthful: We don’t constantly sext because you want to have sexual intercourse with somebody. There’s nothing inherently incorrect with that (unless you’re in a monogamous relationship and also you’re clandestinely sexting an individual who is not your lover, in which particular case it is time for you to check the way you sense). Keep in mind to tread very carefully, because sexting for a self-esteem boost can, if you are experiencing particularly low, change to, “Ew, I don’t wish this 42-year-old divorced dude on Tinder asking if they can draw my nipples,” followed by a depressing crash and a good shower cry.

Sometimes when we’re feeling down, it is better to begin with and stay with bath cries. Continue reading